We all know that getting married isn't easy. You get to spend all your savings and even use your credit cards to pay for everything just to make your wedding day the most memorable and of course perfect.
But what if, the life you planned together after getting married, won't be happening anymore because of an accident?
It's probably the most wonderful day for
Kat and Jun, but for their families, it's not. All their plans shattered into pieces. Instead of celebrating with the
newlyweds, their families and friends were
mourning because of a
bad motorcycle accident involving the newly weds, Kat and Jun which took their lives.
Here's their tough love story that was shared by her friend:
Last November 18 2014 I was shocked to hear the sad news that my dear friend Kat and her long time boyfriend Julio had a worse motorcycle accident which had led them to their death-together. This happening taught me so many things and urged me to write this post to share my thoughts with you.
Kat is one of the sweetest girl you will ever meet. She has these sweet charming eyes that could melt you down, shiny lips that always paints a smile and rosy cheeks that always turns red. Kat is a sensitive girl. She cries easily, laughs easily and falls in love easily. She always sees the good in everything and in everyone that is why she could make friends with everybody and appreciate the good side rather dwell on the bad side of people.
JR on the other hand belongs to the goons of our high school campus. You cannot imagine them being together with Kat being a silent sweet girl. I think she is too sensitive to have a relationship with a typical playboy. :-) Yet Julio was also a leader like Kat and Kat never missed to see this good side of his.
It all started with a �Hi Kat!� from Julio when we were walking on the path walk right in front of the teacher�s office. What Kat heard was not Julio�s voice but cupid�s arrow striking her straight to the heart! They started texting however at that time Julio was still in a relationship with one of our classmates. That is why Kat was hooked in the theme song �Borrowed Time� by Cueshe because they were just borrowing the happy times that they had spent together in the pavilion at the back of the school building. Well, well God always has his creative ways of bringing them together and giving them the time that is exclusively theirs. Eventually they started this great journey of being together as boyfriend and girlfriend. -and the rest is history-
The last time I saw Kat we were talking about when we will both get married and she said that she would want to be married at 28. I jokingly answered her that i�ll be dead by that time and I could still remember how she laughed. The last talk we had was just about her posts where Julio sends her gifts all the time. I jokingly told her that she should take it down because many girls envy how she is loved and how she loves his BF.
And now they have embarked on another journey where they could even love each other more. Last November 22, 2014 5pm, JR and Kat was blessed by an officiating priest to be together in love. It was our first time to feel two couples being wedded after death. 4 hours before the ceremony started our elementary and highschool classmates gathered together to witness the blessing of the so-called wedding that they had. Instead of being sad and devastated, the environment was so happy that JR and Kat looked really beautiful and handsome. I know that they were looking down and following the ceremony that we were having. As the mass started, I just closed my eyes and imagined Kat in that stunning wedding gown and Julio, teary-eyed, waiting to have her bride on his arms as his wife.
I wish we all have this kind of love, a love that until death-never parts.
Kat and JR, thank you for teaching us to love as how you have loved. Thank you for teaching us that life is too short for hatred, worry and envy. And most of all.. thank you for teaching us that no matter how painful life would end, our body is just a vessel and our spirit will surely flourish when we are surrounded with the people whom we shared this gift of life.
Congratulations! Your love will live long in our hearts! Mabuhay ang bagong kasal!
I feel sad and at the same time happy for the both of them. Their friends and family may not be able to see her walk down the aisle wearing her wedding gown, at least they still got married.
Amazing right? It's like they're getting married in heaven because they were wedded after their death!
They weren't able to spend their lives together and grow old together at least they still wedded after their death. People who witnessed their love story claim that they had just defined what eternal love is.